(This message should be displayed with a non-proportional typeface, such as Courier or Terminal. For information on how to subscribe to or un-subscribe from this list, see the bottom of the message.) ___________________________________ S y n o d N E W S l i n k "Extra Edition" wednesday, may 31, 1995 ___________________________________ s u m m a r y Today's Synod NEWSlink "Extra" is the complete, verbatim text of a report from a youth consultation held within the Diocese of New Westminster. In preparation for representing the young people in the diocese, the diocesan youth delegate to General Synod undertook a process of consulting with youth members from parishes around the diocese, parish youth leaders, and youth ministry support staff. This report is the summary of those findings and will be used to help shape the decisions the diocesan youth delegate makes on behalf of the young people in the diocese. While the comments received are from members of parishes in a particular diocese, they likely represent a strong proportion of young Anglicans around the country as well. ___________________________________ t e x t Foremost, young people in this diocese are tired of arguing. They watch the "adult church" fight about process and policy, while seemingly ignoring the foundations of our common faith. They are frustrated at listening to others argue about church buildings and which book to endorse, and feel that by trying to select a "standard" prayer book or hymn book, the church is failing to offer a home for the diverse views which they believe makes the Anglican Church strong. Whether the church actually is trying to establish a standard hymnbook and prayer book is less important, they say, as is the perception. Similarly, they believe there is a need to search for a different model of decision making within the church. While they understand the logic behind the vote-oriented democratic process within Synods and parish councils, most young people in this consultation felt such a process is pre-destined to be divisive, leaving people feeling unheard and unimportant. Many youths described it as a justice issue. There was a very strong call for the church to find a better model of making decisions about our future as worshipping communities -- perhaps using the model of consensus building used by members of First Nations. In the parish, some young people found spiritual development and support of their peers strong, while others felt marginalized. Most agreed that support of young people in parishes throughout the diocese is probably stronger than that of other dioceses. One common thread was that many youths in this consultation said they often felt treated as workers in the parish, not full participating members. Youth groups are seen by some people in parishes as 'instant work groups' to serve coffee, mow lawns, and do pancake breakfasts. While most young people who participated said they were happy to help contribute in this way, they expressed a desire to participate more fully within the actual service and parish: as readers, as choir members (not youth choirs), as Eucharistic administrators, and as members of parish council. One gap in ministry in the diocese appears to be young adult ministry. Overwhelmingly, young people found there to be almost nothing for the post-teen "Gen-X" ages. They are turning to other denominations to attend College and Careers groups and fear that their peers are leaving Anglican parishes because of this. A strong number of participants in this process defined this as perhaps the most critical issue in youth ministry for our diocese. In addition, a number of young people made the point that young people today have substantially less leisure time than youths of 10 or 20 years ago. The workforce is shrinking and competition to get into post-secondary educational institutions forces many young people to commit weekends and evenings to study and work. The young people in our communities and parishes are deeply spiritual -- a few suggested more so than most adults. Young people are searching, eager to learn about their faith and the traditions of Anglicanism, but find little nurturing of this kind available. One comment: "Nobody told me spiritual development would end after confirmation classes." Young people believe their peers 'outside the church' want to visit on a Sunday to "try it out," and that we should be doing a better job making church an inviting place. To most who contributed to this consultation, that meant exploring new forms of worship and freeing up what most found to be a rigid liturgy. "It's hard to bring a friend to church if we don't enjoy it ourselves," was a particularly illuminating comment. Reading prayers from a book, reciting words (like a Psalm) together, and dry music were among the elements of the service pointed to as having room for improvement. It was encouraging to hear many youths express their commitment to their parish and the wider Anglican church. There was a feeling that they wanted to stick it out and help the church change, but some wondered how long they would be able to when other denomination and non-Christian organizations are moving so far ahead in youth ministry. Young people are very aware that they will help form the future of the church, and fear that their dwindling numbers are a very real threat to that future. ------------------------------------------------------------ * END OF TEXT *